Nice Girl vs Bitch (Which one are you)

The Nice Girl

She’ll try to sweet-talk a man into giving her what she want on a regular basis. If she doesn’t get it, she’ll cry, get upset, or pout.
She’ll play the guilt card or talk about her “inner child”; she seems to possess a childlike quality.
If he hurts her in some way, she’ll cry. Then she’ll make him apologize and promise not to do it again.
She tells herself, “He didn’t mean that.” Or, she makes excuses if he behaves badly.
She forces herself to do something she is uncomfortable with in order to please a man. she also puts on a happy face and pretends she likes it.

The Bitch

She won’t sugarcoat anything or use euphemisms. She is direct about what her preferences are and lets him know what the dos and don’t are, with respects to how he treats her.
She is a grown woman, so there’s nothing “childlike” about her. She has a no-nonsense philosophy.
She’ll back off and let her silence do the talking. Then she’ll communicate when she’s ready, on her own terms; at this point, she makes it clear it won’t happen again, because if it does she won’t be around.
She notices his disrespect instantly and, without hesitation, calls him on the carpet over it.
She won’t do anything shes not comfortable with and won’t hesitate to let him know. She meets him on a level playing field.

Nice girl= A docile woman. Loss of respect

Bitch= A desirable woman. Increased Respect

-Sherry Argov

1 year ago
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The Bitch

Bitch (noun): A woman who won’t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion— be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards— ONLY HER OWN.

-Sherry Argov

The next time someone calls you a bitch, thank them. ;)